Thank you for visiting my website.  I am sorry for posting this cartoon picture of me but I did not want my wife to see my picture.  I know that your not reading my pages because your  having a warm and fuzzy -  great day with you wife.  Brother, I know and I have been THERE!  It sucks, it’s embarrassing and most importantly she betrayed you.

When I found out that my wife was having an affair on me in November 2008, I had so many sleepless nights.  I searched and researched every possible website that could give me information on trying to find out the truth of her cheating.  I have honestly spent thousands of dollars (most of which I was in a drunken stupor) on gadgets, spying stuff, books and even hired a private investigator.

I wanted to create a site that helps others that are in my position.  A website that reviews items that I have personally used and helps uncover the good, the bad and the ugly.  All I can say is hang in there and it will get better….. either with her or without her.